Sunday, June 23, 2013

Well Actually...I'm Just Saying

It's been a long time since my last post! Things changed, people changed, and many things I wanna share but when it comes to the 'compose page' I thought maybe I shouldn't share everything. I'm in a good situation overall and I'm happy to have another new experience everyday. Now why should I compose this post in English? Well for this moment, I'm just feeling comfortable with this. Especially today I wanna talk about one of friend of mine.

I knew 'this friend' not long ago and I think 'this friend' is a good friend to talk with because of the friendliness. I used to have a good friendship with 'this friend' but as time goes by, I found something wrong with 'this friend'. Let me summarize the main characteristics of 'this friend': friendly, easy going, and...highly super selfish. I know its bad to say anything negative of someone else, but let me just saying and I'm just sharing it here. One of the reason why I can't stand of 'this friend' is because of the selfishness. The meaning of selfishness can be enlarged in many ways. For this case, I found that 'this friend' firstly often said and did mean and rude things whenever 'this friend' is angry or feeling upset. FYI, I'm not kinda person who used to use some rude words so its really annoying when 'this friend' started to say many bad things. Can you imagine 'this friend' shouted loudly to me one day just because of a little mistake that I made? 'this friend' say rude words to me while I just could keep silent because I didn't wanna do the same way. I take people in honor that none deserve rude words whatever we do. Really, I'm feeling upset at that time. Even my parents never say it to me.
Second, 'this friend' often underestimates people. I know 'this friend' comes from the family background who has a big name and richness if I can say that. But just because of that doesn't mean you can underestimate people and consider yourself as the best one or the super-powerful one. Why should I found it as a bad thing? Its because 'this friend' did it to me. 'this friend' thought that I'm not even a half of him, I can't do anything, I can't do business as he planned to do, and 'this friend's family is better than mine. Like, come on you can say anything you want but not my family. You'll be on a big problem. Seriously, this kind of person is really annoying. I mean, really.

Now, something bad happening with 'this friend' and I'm posting it not because I hate 'this friend', but I hope there is a silver lining that 'this friend' can take from the big problem of his life now. Being a mean, rude, selfish are not good for you. I'm not perfect that I can judge people, but at least I'm perfect enough to be a person who never underestimate others. Well Actually...I'm Just Saying.